...well, finally a normal startup ...and i'm not entirely sure why... first off, i switched fakesmc.kext with ANV's appledecrypt.kext, rebooted again to safe mode...while in safe mode i edited info.plist of geforce.kext adding the line osbundlerequired/string/root at the end of the file, so it would load in safe mode(that gave me graphics acceleration in safe mode on a restart) finally, in a last-ditch attempt i plugged in the usb installer and booted from it(using 1 at boot to use chameleon) to the new installation, using bootflags at boot prompt -v -f GraphicsEnabler=Yes and presto! a clean boot without -x...now to figure out why this worked
edit: seems when i boot from the usb installer i load fakesmc from the usb stick and appledecrypt from my extensions folder...